Image from harpersbazaar.com
Image from harpersbazaar.com
In my post on this blog’s new direction I noted that my clothing size varies depending on the label and style. I’m sure you have had the experience of not knowing which size will fit you best, particularly when shopping online.
Here’s my first piece of advice – don’t worry about the size you wear because it’s how it fits that matters. I will buy a size 16, 18, 20 or 22 if that’s what I think will fit (and therefore look) better.
If you are physically trying clothes on then take the size you think you are, plus one size up and one size down. That way you can compare them and see what looks best.
Online shopping is a bit trickier. First, you need to know your measurements. Yes, it’s a hassle but get out that tape measure and measure your bust, waist and hips in both cms and inches. Write your measurements down and keep them handy.
Second, check the size guide on the website to see which size is closest to your measurements. If you are like me and between sizes, you’ll need to check the product description. This is often overlooked as people tend to focus on the pictures but I always make my buying decisions based on both.
If it says slim fit, skinny fit, cut close to the body or similar then you need to go with the size up. If it says regular fit I would also go with the size up unless there is stretch in the fabric (more on this in an upcoming post) and you like to wear your clothes more fitted.
If however, it says relaxed fit then you can probably get away with the size down. A relaxed fit is what I look for when shopping online because fit matters less and you don’t need to get the size exactly right.
Last weekend I was in Sydney, shopping at Myer department store which has a range of different labels. I walked past a label that I stopped wearing several years ago when the largest size got too small for me. On display on a table was a knit top. The print caught my eye and when I picked it up I saw that although it was a size small it was quite big. I searched through the pile and found a size large. I held it up and was sure it would fit. I tried it on and sure enough it did. I was thrilled and went to the counter to buy it. While waiting in line I spotted a cardigan by the same label, and again the size large looked like it would fit. I quickly tried it on and it did. So I ended up with two pieces by a label I haven’t worn in years all because of a relaxed fit.
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The key to not looking like you actually walked out of the house in your pajamas, is to keep the look polished.
To get the proportions right, I paired my shirt which has a relaxed fit and is quite long on me, with a mini skirt. Related to proportion is balance. In this case, wearing the mini skirt with flats, because I prefer a look that is subtly, rather than overtly, sexy.
To complement the “busy” stripes of the shirt, I limited my accessories to black and gold, and added a pop of red on my lips and nails. Simple but effective.
Let me know what you think of this look by leaving a comment.
Nearly three and a half years since I started THE LUXE EDIT blog, I am ready to take it in a new direction. In recent times I had let the blog slip on my list of priorities. When I’m not working I’m writing and the blog had been coming a distant third. After chatting with some new friends over a few glasses of wine, I realised that I needed to dig deeper. If I made the blog more personal I could keep myself motivated and connect with a wider audience.
So here goes…
I was a tiny baby and a skinny kid but since adolescence I have struggled with my weight. It hasn’t fluctuated up and down so much as steadily increased year on year (apart from a brief period when I lost a bunch of weight on a fad diet and then proceeded to gain it all back and more). My weight plateaued about three years ago and I now wear a NZ/AU/UK size 18 or 20 depending on the label and style (more on this in an upcoming post).
And you know what?
I am more body confident now than I ever was at my slimmest. That’s because it’s not actually about your body but your mind. You have the right to feel good in your own skin. How your body looks has no bearing on your worth. We are all people with thinking minds and feeling hearts and that is what really makes us who we are.
But we do get judged on our appearance, and you know, fashion is fun! So I want to help you feel comfortable in the body you have, and confident in the style and image you are projecting to the world. This will enable your inner beauty, your true beauty, to shine through.
When I started THE LUXE EDIT I wanted to share my style advice but being a naturally private person, I didn’t feel comfortable photographing myself for the blog. But styling is a visual medium and I realised that the best way to help you, would be to show you. So going forward I will be sharing my outfits with you and breaking down how I’ve styled them. I will also be creating other original content intended to inspire you.
I called my blog THE LUXE EDIT because along with style advice I wanted to express my personal taste, which is unabashedly luxe. But luxury doesn’t have to be expensive. While I have some higher-end pieces, the building blocks of my outfits are affordable. I will show you how to create a look that is polished and luxurious.
So THE LUXE EDIT is aspirational but it is also inclusive…
You don’t need to look like me to get a lot out of this blog. Whatever your body shape, size, ethnicity or gender identity – there is a place for you here. A place that I hope will help move you closer to self-acceptance and ultimately, self-love.
P.S. I’d love to hear your thoughts on THE LUXE EDIT’s new direction so please leave a comment.
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THE LUXE EDIT has a new look and will be moving in a new direction. Watch this space…
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This is my newest ring which I picked up in Hawaii. It is rose gold with a morganite centre stone, surrounded by diamonds and pink tourmalines.
I just got back from Hawaii and thought I would take the opportunity to share some packing tips with you.
On trips like this one when I know I will be shopping, I like to take two medium sized suitcases and split my packing across them, leaving plenty of room for my purchases.
My tip to making the most of your space is to use resealable plastic bags, when you squeeze all the air out you can effectively vacuum pack your items. This also has the added benefit of protecting your clothes from leaking beauty products.
I used to fold my clothes but this trip I decided to try rolling and it definitely creates less wrinkles. But make sure while you are rolling, the garment doesn’t bunch or fold as this will create wrinkles.
The other new technique I tried was to pack the garments for each day’s outfit together in one large bag. That way each morning I could just grab that day’s bag and not have to rummage around my suitcase looking for things.
Happy packing for your next trip!
This ring is from another trip to Singapore. I found it at Takashimaya department store. The ring is yellow and white gold with intricate cutouts, sapphires and topazes.
Image source: vogue.com
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On a trip to London I popped into Harrods and choose these two Monica Vinader Siren stacking rings. Both rings are 18ct gold plated vermeil on sterling silver. One stone is citrine and the other is green onyx.
Click here to view a selection of Siren stacking rings available from the Monica Vinader site.
I didn’t go away over the holiday season but am planning a trip for later in the year. Which got me thinking about my travels and this tradition I started back in 2007 while in Italy.
I bought myself a ring from one of the jewellery shops on the Ponte Vecchio over the Arno River in Florence. The ring was a simple gold band with rounded edges and set with three small diamonds.
I don’t recall how it started exactly (whether it was a conscious decision or simply a symptom of my growing obsession with rings) but I have picked up a ring on most of my trips since.
The ring below was from Goldheart Jewel Galleria in Singapore. It is an infinity style, one band is rose gold, the other is white gold set with seven diamonds.
Giorgio Armani Privé
Ralph and Russo
All images from vogue.co.uk
Image source: vogue.co.uk
I was devastated to hear the news of Alber Elbaz’s departure from Lanvin.
As you will know from reading this blog, Alber is my absolute favourite designer.
I wish him the very best for the future and will eagerly await news of his return.
Image source: vogue.co.uk
All images from vogue.co.uk
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Monica Vinader pendants, Liberty
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